Black Girls Reclaiming the Erotic

Black Girls Reclaiming the Erotic

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WISHLIST: 2013 WINTER BOOKLIST X POETRY & CLASSICS

2013 Winter Wishlist :BOOKS

grrrl sounds: TIOMBE LOCKHART X CUBIC ZIRCONIA

You had me at “LEX & T DON’T FUCK FOR FREE”

“Watching humanity and seeing how people are, it kind of gives you compassion. It helps you understand that everyone is necessary. Everyone plays a part. It’s also taught me the most important thing which is, you just have to go with the flow.”

- Tiombe Lockhart


POET: WARSAN SHIRE X “for women who are difficult to love”

you are a horse running alone
and he tries to tame you
compares you to an impossible highway
to a burning house
says you are blinding him
that he could never leave you
forget you
want anything but you
you dizzy him, you are unbearable
every woman before or after you
is doused in your name
you fill his mouth
his teeth ache with memory of taste
his body just a long shadow seeking yours
but you are always too intense
frightening in the way you want him
unashamed and sacrificial
he tells you that no man can live up to the one who
lives in your head
and you tried to change didn’t you?
closed your mouth more
tried to be softer
prettier
less volatile, less awake
but even when sleeping you could feel
him travelling away from you in his dreams
so what did you want to do love
split his head open?
you can’t make homes out of human beings
someone should have already told you that
and if he wants to leave
then let him leave
you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love.

- Warsan Shire 

 

for women who are difficult to love from brianna olson on Vimeo.

VAPID OBSESSIONS: 2013 WISH LIST X LIT.&LIPSTICK

Feminism & Flair: 2013 Wishlist

grrrl sounds: SOLANGE x “TRUE”

“True”

Solange, who executes each cut with simple grace and yearning naïveté. These songs often reconcile girlish optimism with worldly wisdom as though the two are one and the same. “Maybe I lost you, but I was not done having my fun/ Played around with your heart, now I’m playing around in the dark,” she apologizes on”Lovers in the Parking Lot”. And on “Bad Girls”, she captures the uneasiness of waking up in last night’s smeared makeup and feeling unmoored: “I look down on you, so deep down I know that we’re the same/ It’s stupid thinking that you would want to come play my game,” she sings, ending the EP over a twinkle worthy of a closing scene in an early John Hughes film.